That’s right! It’s time to go natural, ladies and just be your amazingly beautiful, all-star fabulous selves. So many women focus on learning the tricks to becoming the hottest man bait - which usually involves doing something that is not representative of who they are at their core. Such things include dressing a certain way, pretending to be interested in something he is interested in and so on.  I call this the padded bra syndrome.  You put on something that falsifies who you are with good intention - to make yourself more attractive to your mandidate.  The problem is - eventually, that something is going to come off, revealing the real "flat-chested" you, which oftentimes results in detracting your guy.  The men worth wanting, want real women – women who are self-assured enough to be themselves. So instead of trying to be what you think he wants you to be, instead play up who you already are (see the tip: Find Your Cleavage) and he will find that sexier than anything fabricated.

xo, Tristan

Find your cleavage. Every girl has it. It just may not be in the form of measurable boobs. Mine is that I’m devilishly charming. My friend Sarah she might be 6’ tall and blond but she is also Einstein smart, my girl Tyra, she’s cute as a button, Kim rocks confidence like no one else. Erika, she may as well be an amateur stand-up comedian and can rattle off sports stats like an ESPN anchor. The point is, every girl has something about her that is just as sexy, just as magnetically attractive to the male species as boob gutter, and probably even more so because it is weighted in substance – figure out what your cleavage is – push it up Victoria’s Secret Miracle bra style and market that the next time you go out into the field shopping for mandidates.

xo, Tristan