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Zip It!

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Zip it! Sometimes nervousness gets the best of us on a date and we can blab on but seriously, when it comes to certain subjects, on the first few dates, you need to shut up. Taboo topics include soulmates/destiny/fate, upcoming weddings you are going to that you just so happen to need a date for, ex-boyfriends or the number of guys you’ve bedded, your therapist or bouts in rehab, your perfectly mapped out plans for the future and current debt or your trust fund. TMI at the beginning is a major turn off to a guy who is only turned on by the good stuff – the easy, breezy, no drama stuff.  So in that getting to know you phase, introduce the cool, calm, collected you, not the “Hey, how many kids do you want in the future? I hope it is more than my loser ex-boyfriend that I am so happy my shrink convinced me to break up with” girl to the side for now to keep from scaring him away. Serving up the sweet stuff with your mouth at the beginning is guaranteed to grant you sweet stuff in return... in the form of kisses!

xo, Tristan
 

Debt-Free Fashion

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Debt-Free Fashion. It’s a new year and the new you wants to feel hotter than ever, right? But unfortunately reality might be bitchslapping you in the face with reminders that we are still in a recession, not to mention your generous spirit probably over-gifted during the holidays, leaving your designer wallet void of cash making you unable to dish out for new date digs. Well, never fear, I've got TWO solutions for you that will have you looking supremely hot on all your fabulous dates without sacrificing your rent check. First up: host a clothing swap with your BFFs. Temporarily or permanently trade cute tops, adorable dresses, killer shoes and ooh la la accessories. Although the goods aren't technically new, they will be new to you, and certainly to your dates, too. Number 2: keep a wardrobe log. Write down what you wear, with which mandidate and where you go. This way you can recycle favorite outfits without fear of repeat. Is there an app for that?! There should be! Here's to looking your best without going broke!

xo, Tristan
 

Less Can Be More in the Online Dating Game

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Less Can Be More in the Online Dating Game. Just like a page turning book or a cliffhanging TV series, a captivating online dating profile leaves its readers with a little mystery. That means not over-profiling... not sharing every little detail about your fabulous self but instead teasing with the most interesting highlights about yourself and giving just enough details to intrigue them but saving the novella for when you meet face-to-face. Bottom line: Offer a tantalizing taste to prospective mandidates which will whet their appetite leaving them wanting to order you up in person.

xo, Tristan
 

Click Forgivingly

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Click Forgivingly. Ever gone out with a guy 3 inches shorter than his online profile indicates, or one who forgot to mention that he has 2 kids? Welcome to online dating. My advice: save yourself some emotional angst by not prematurely falling in like over a seemingly perfect profile (one replete with a slideshow of flawless pics and all of the dreamy specs you've been wishing for). Diving into a head/heart space that says 'Mr. Screename has been tailor made for you' because his "resume" looks ideal, before you have even said "hello" face-to-face only sets you up for potential head/heart ache. Don't be discouraged by the wonderful world of online dating if you wind up across the table from a slightly less airbrushed version of the one you clicked on; He's just trying to impress you and that's not a bad thing. Give him a chance... you never know, he may be even more than what meets your mouse's eye.

xo, Tristan
 
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